The Secret Keeper of Jaipur and its predecessor both focus on the question of individual autonomy. In the first book, Lakshmi asserts her independence by running away from her marriage and her village to create a life for herself in Jaipur. Unfortunately, she has frequent bouts of guilt for asserting herself. Despite her independent streak, Lakshmi is oblivious to her interference in the lives of others. The rebellious Radha points out that her sister wants to deny her the same freedom of choice. This tension isn’t limited to Lakshmi’s interaction with her sibling. She extends the same benign control over Malik and Nimmi in the second book. Without waiting for his consent, Lakshmi arranges to send Malik to learn the construction trade in Jaipur. Part of Lakshmi’s motivation for doing so is that she’s intent on separating her adopted son from the widow Nimmi; Lakshmi wants her adopted son to marry someone more educated and sophisticated.

Indian culture plays a strong role in Lakshmi’s motivation. Prior to national independence, the country relied on tradition and strong oversight from the older generation in the affairs of a family’s youth. By the 1960s, young people began to question the right of their parents and guardians to decide their futures for them.