In The Language of Flowers, community manifests in both the people whom one surrounds oneself with and one’s chosen family. Victoria begins the novel without a community. Upon turning 18, she is aged out of the foster care system and placed in a group home, where she interacts with only her caseworker. She remains without a sense of community until she meets Renata. Renata provides Victoria with her first chance at community by accepting her as a worker. In doing so, she not only introduces Victoria to other flower sellers, but also allows her a chance to explore her craft. Victoria proves herself to clients who increasingly ask for her expertise, making her feel validated. Through Renata, she establishes herself among clients who spread word of her skill. This becomes integral when she starts her own business, ensuring her long-term success.

Victoria’s chosen family begins with Elizabeth. Elizabeth is the first person to fully welcome her into their home without abuse or conditions. She insists on her love for Victoria early on in their relationship and proves she is committed to Victoria’s wellbeing. The main conflict of the novel arises when Elizabeth’s definition of family differs from Victoria’s.