The manipulative process of “grooming,” a term for targeting a victim and building their trust, is a key focus in Grown. Jackson’s novel uses fictional characters to explore the very real problem of the exploitation of underage children (especially girls), and to emphasize that a 17-year-old may look like an adult, but is still a child. Jackson draws upon her own life experiences as well as countless victim accounts to shine a light on the widespread and disturbing practice of grooming minors to make them more vulnerable to sexual predation by adults.

From the beginning of their relationship, Korey is aware of Enchanted’s age and still chooses to introduce her to adult content. He encourages her to “read 50 Shades of Grey” (61) and asks her to “Wear something that shows them curves” (85). Enchanted is initially uncomfortable but imagines that if this really was an inappropriate relationship, Korey wouldn’t encourage it. Her infatuation and age-appropriate immaturity prevents her from being able to recognize Korey’s tactics as manipulative. Still, Enchanted hides the romantic aspects of her relationship from her family and friends, knowing that the “outside world” won’t understand. She tries to justify the age gap between her and Korey by saying that it’s “only… an eleven-year difference.