Tembi’s timeline constantly shifts between the past and present. Why might she have organized her memoir in this way? What impact does the structure have on the reader?

Discuss the book’s title and subtitle. How does Tembi start her life “from scratch”? What aspects of her life after losing Saro are built on a preexisting foundation?

Address the importance and function of food in Tembi’s memoir. In what ways does food serve as a metaphor for the subtler aspects of human interaction?