After Meddy Chan wakes in the car to find her date apparently dead, she rushes home to Ma. What does this choice say about the theme of Familial Duty Versus Independence? Do you think Meddy’s character at the end of the book might react differently now in a crisis?

Are familial duty and independence always in conflict? Is it possible that the two forces could complement each other? Consider Meddy’s wish specifically for physical distance from her family and the concept of setting boundaries with loved ones.

How is love—familial and romantic—depicted in this novel? Consider how the novel defines love in the context of the theme of Loyalty Versus Fear and Selfishness. How does love influence the characters’ choices and behaviors?