Time has elapsed, and Tino and Dichaan—another of Akin’s father figures—observe Akin’s habits as a 20-year-old. They note his inclination to wander and maintain communication with the resisters. Akin’s parents, including Dichaan, discuss the tension between the Oankali and humans. Dichaan decides it’s time for Akin to learn to connect with his Oankali side as he approaches his metamorphosis.

Akin experiences a sense of disconnection from his sibling Tiikuchahk, considering them his “least interesting sibling” (202). He strongly opposes going to Chkahichdahk, the Oankali home ship, to the extent that he decides against saying goodbye to anyone.

The village organizes a feast for Akin and Tiikuchahk. Akin perceives a lack of respect from his elders regarding his opinions, particularly his understanding of and affection for humans. During a discussion about their futures with an older sister, the siblings express feeling distant from each other. Despite Tiikuchahk’s desire to become male—a reason not to accompany Akin—they decide to go anyway, indicating deep hurt from their separation. Akin bids farewell to Lilith, who advises him that to aid the resisters, he must learn more about the Oankali.